Happiness & Its Causes
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TOO MUCH INFORMATION: HOW DIGITAL OVER CONSUMPTION IS SHAPING OUR MENTAL HEALTH with Jocelyn Brewer
Modern humans have ancient cognitive operating systems, yet are consuming more information on a daily basis than our Tudor era ancestors did in their entire lives. What impact is having access to so much information, so many opinions and channels of communication having on our mental health and wellbeing and how do we shape these positively without ditching our devices? Cyberpsychologist Jocelyn Brewer will outline strategies to prevent 'infobesity', manage your digital data consumption and be well, connected.
Jocelyn Brewer, Registered Psychologist, digital wellbeing specialist, media commentator, Founder of Digital Nutrition
happinessanditscauses.com.au/
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MUSIC AND THE BRAIN with Carlin McLellan at HAP22
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MUSIC AND THE BRAIN Music can raise our spirits, soothe our pain, help us to learn, and bring us together. Listening to and playing music provides a total brain workout with numerous cognitive, social and emotional benefits throughout the lifespan. Enjoy exploring how and why music is so good for us! Carlin McLellan, Registered Music Therapist, music technologist, Founder of Play Anything Music...
UNHAPPINESS & ITS CAUSES with Dr Darren Coppin at HAP22
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UNHAPPINESS & ITS CAUSES There are three “Cs” that are central to human flourishing. But we completely underestimate their importance. Unprecedented changes in these three Cs over the last few decades explain the extraordinary increases in anxiety, stress, emptiness and depression across society. The three Cs of Community, Comparison and Contribution are embedded in us all from our deep, evolut...
SELF-AWARENESS & MAKING CHOICES THAT PROMOTE OUR WELLBEING with Dr Vijay Kumar & Catherine MacLaurin
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SELF-AWARENESS AND MAKING CHOICES THAT WILL PROMOTE OUR WELLBEING We need to access a wide range of important considerations when making choices that will promote our wellbeing - self-awareness is key. Explore how to increase self-awareness using psychological skills such as relaxation, mindfulness, goal setting, self-talk, and visualization. Connect with your inner values and learn how to deve...
GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE: UNLEASH YOUR HIDDEN POTENTIAL & CHANGE YOUR DESTINY with Kaley Chu
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For many of us, connecting with strangers is challenging and perhaps a little scary. Kaley will show you how every stranger, every new connection, is a door to opportunities you never thought existed. Her methodology will help you re-evaluate your self-talk, overcome limiting beliefs and move forward into a much more fulfilling life. Kaley Chu, confidence coach who inspires people to transform ...
MEDITATION AND PERSONAL KINDNESS with Dr Ian Gawler at HAP23
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It is said meditation is the greatest gift you can give to yourself or to someone else. It is also said the discipline required to practice regularly and to receive this gift fully is a personal kindness. For some, meditation might seem like a struggle, an effort, something they “have to do”. Here we explore its kinder aspects and the secrets to satisfying and regular practice. Dr Ian Gawler OA...
PURPOSE AND MONEY - HOW TO HAVE BOTH IN THE NEW AGE with Vanessa Stoykov at HAP22
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We all know that financial wellness is part of leading a happy life. So how can you lead a happy, purpose filled life, and take control of your money? This talk opens up the conversation about how being happy and financially secure can change not only your life, but the lives of those around you.  Vanessa Stoykov, inspiring financial educator, best-selling author; Founder and CEO of Evolution M...
STRANGERS IN EDEN: RECONNECTING WITH NATURE TO FIND MEANING IN LIFE with Professor Michael Steger
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Meaning and purpose seem to be talked about everywhere these days, from corporate boardrooms to youth basketball teams. Meaning and purpose are supposed to fix all that ails us, but what are they? How can we find ways to cultivate meaning that help us flourish? One of the challenges to meaning in modern life is the rupturing of vital connections we once had to the world around us. We will look ...
WHY THE FUTURE ECONOMY HAS TO BE A WELLBEING ECONOMY with Katherine Trebeck at HAP22
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What do people and planet really need from the economy? Is the quality of life undermined by the drive for economic growth at all costs? In this provocative talk, Trebeck describes a new challenge: a move from expansion to inclusion. Katherine Trebeck, political economist, writer and advocate for economic system change; Co-founder Wellbeing Economy Alliance happinessanditscauses.com.au/
REWILDING OUR BACKYARDS AND GARDENS with Costa Georgiadis at HAP22
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Be inspired to put out the welcome mat for native birds, animals and insects by rewilding your backyard, garden or city balcony. Learn some simple tips on the steps you can take to create a habitat that is a joyful contribution to our collective home - planet Earth. Costa Georgiadis, much loved host of ABC TV’s Gardening Australia with an all- consuming passion for plants and people, ABC TV
ARE DIVERSITY AND INCLUSION GOOD FOR YOUR WELLBEING? at HAP22
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Diversity and inclusion are recognised to have many benefits for society such as reducing racism and discrimination, increasing productivity at work, and providing a balance of views and opinions. However, are diversity and inclusion also good for your personal wellbeing? Petrea King; Professor Jioji Ravulo; Dalia Feldheim; Janine Shepherd AM; Dr Shane Clifton MODERATOR: Jenny Steadman
HARNESS YOUR FORCE TO FIND YOUR GOLD MEDAL MOMENT with Carol Cooke AM PLY at HAP22
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Be challenged to embrace adversity and change in your life by a 3-time Paralympian who is an expert in overcoming adversity and change. Learn the 5 Steps to Harness the Force within yourself and find your own Gold Medal Moment. Carol Cooke AM PLY, Australian Paralympic Gold Medallist in cycling, sports fanatic, workaholic, former undercover police officer and Multiple Sclerosis advocate happine...
LIVING AN ETHICAL LIFE: HOW TO MAKE GOOD CHOICES IN THE FACE OF TEMPTATION, CHALLENGES + UNCERTAINTY
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Most of us aspire to leading an ethical life but things are not always black and white. How can we make the best choices possible for our own and others’ wellbeing and happiness? What can we do to resist temptation, navigate challenges and make friends with uncertainty? Professor Michael F Steger; Aunty Munda Andrews; Katherine Trebeck; Dr Ian Gawler OAM; Dr Shane Clifton Moderator: Jenny Steadman
JOURNEY INTO DREAMTIME with Aunty Munya Andrews at HAP22
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Come on a journey with Aboriginal elder Aunty Munya, into the magical world of Aboriginal Dreamtime and share in the world's oldest living culture - its ancient knowledge and spiritual wisdom. Be guided in discovering your purpose in life and how to walk in the footsteps of our ancestors. Learn what it means to truly belong and be family to everyone and everything. Aunty Munya Andrews, leading ...
INDOOR PLANTS, OUR ENVIRONMENT AND HAPPINESS with Associate Professor Fraser Torpy at HAP22
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Studies have also shown that indoor plants can improve concentration and productivity, reduce stress levels and boost your mood - making them perfect for not just your home but your workspace as well. Learn more about the link between plants, wellbeing and happiness and be inspired to create your own plant sanctuary. Associate Professor Fraser Torpy, Director of the Plants and Environmental Qua...
PERSONAL STORY: FINDING JOY WHEN YOUR BODY FAILS YOU with Dr Shane Clifton at HAP22
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PERSONAL STORY: FINDING JOY WHEN YOUR BODY FAILS YOU with Dr Shane Clifton at HAP22
WEBINAR | HOW CAN WE CREATE GENUINE HAPPINESS FOR OURSELVES AND OTHERS?
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WEBINAR | HOW CAN WE CREATE GENUINE HAPPINESS FOR OURSELVES AND OTHERS?
WEBINAR | HOW CAN WE BUILD RESILIENT AND HAPPY MINDS IN TOUGH TIMES?
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WEBINAR | HOW CAN WE BUILD RESILIENT AND HAPPY MINDS IN TOUGH TIMES?
WEBINAR | HOW TO STAY POSITIVE WHEN YOU HAVE LOCKDOWN FATIGUE
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WEBINAR | HOW TO STAY POSITIVE WHEN YOU HAVE LOCKDOWN FATIGUE
HAP21 PROMO
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HAP21 PROMO
Walking Meditation with Dr Jono Lineen at Happiness & Its Causes 2020
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Walking Meditation with Dr Jono Lineen at Happiness & Its Causes 2020
FIRESIDE CHAT: LOOKING ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF LIFE at HAP20
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FIRESIDE CHAT: LOOKING ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF LIFE at HAP20
HUMAN FLOURISHING IN CHALLENGING TIMES with Professor Richard J Davidson at HAP20
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HUMAN FLOURISHING IN CHALLENGING TIMES with Professor Richard J Davidson at HAP20
PARADOXES OF HOPE: HOW THE WORST MOMENTS CREATE THE POSSIBILITY FOR THE BEST with Dr Maria Sirois
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PARADOXES OF HOPE: HOW THE WORST MOMENTS CREATE THE POSSIBILITY FOR THE BEST with Dr Maria Sirois
JOY ON DEMAND: THE ART OF DISCOVERING THE HAPPINESS WITHIN with Chade Meng Tan at HAP20
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JOY ON DEMAND: THE ART OF DISCOVERING THE HAPPINESS WITHIN with Chade Meng Tan at HAP20
Happiness & Its Causes 2020 VIRTUAL | Day One - Plenary Session #1
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Happiness & Its Causes 2020 VIRTUAL | Day One - Plenary Session #1
EAT, DRINK & STILL SHRINK with Michelle Chevalley Hedge at Happiness & Its Causes 2019
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EAT, DRINK & STILL SHRINK with Michelle Chevalley Hedge at Happiness & Its Causes 2019
TRANSFORMATION - AN INSIDE TRUTH with Sam Corfitsen at Happiness & Its Causes 2019
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TRANSFORMATION - AN INSIDE TRUTH with Sam Corfitsen at Happiness & Its Causes 2019
RESOLVING CONFLICT FOR A HAPPIER YOU with Catherine Davidson at Happiness & Its Causes 2019
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RESOLVING CONFLICT FOR A HAPPIER YOU with Catherine Davidson at Happiness & Its Causes 2019

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @MadiHunt-pq3rs
    @MadiHunt-pq3rs 22 години тому

    I always felt this woman was a mysogynist

  • @milascave2
    @milascave2 День тому

    I think that both men and women, if deprived. Of sex for certain amount of time (And here I speak of those who won't attempt to do it by many means at all, not those with a. physical issue) should be permitted to seek sex somewhere else. At a certain point, it should not even be considered cheating. Committing to monogamy is not the same as committing to celibacy. And nobody should have the right to force celibacy on anybody else.

  • @biondna7984
    @biondna7984 День тому

    I think what dampens women's sex drives is (1) Judeo-Christian-Islamic culture that teaches girls that "nice girls don't like to," to keep them less likely to stray from their husbands; (2) the hormonal changes that happen with pregnancy and childbirth, which killed off my sex drive for several months; and (3) men who still believe that marrying a woman is the same as buying her and the use of her body. THAT really kills sex. My second marriage was with a wonderful, loving man who died, with whom I had regular wonderful sex. I miss him so much.

  • @jacquelynfairchild369
    @jacquelynfairchild369 День тому

    I think a big part of the problem is the inequality in the World between men and women. Women are ANGERY!!! They was to be treated more KINDLY. FIRST SND FOREMOST. THEN MAYBE SECONDLY L, THE SEXUAL EXCITEMENT WILL ARISE!!❤❤❤❤

  • @sharonnugent408
    @sharonnugent408 День тому

    There was never foreplay, just can I get a little. If your pay me attention and appreciation he would ha e got much more than a little.

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil День тому

    00:19 🛌 The discussion revolves around the correlation between sex and happiness. 03:37 📉 A significant number of women report low desire in relationships, impacting couples' dynamics. 07:00 🔄 Women may enjoy sex even without initial desire if they initiate it as an effort for connection. 10:18 🚫 Addressing rejection in relationships, both partners should consider its impact on their connection. 12:00 🌍 Historical context: Women's right to say no in relationships evolved from critical societal changes. 16:00 🔄 Aging and health impact sexual dynamics, requiring couples to adapt and communicate effectively.

  • @artimuscoffee8921
    @artimuscoffee8921 День тому

    No sex, no desire -- no marriage!!!! Dont get married at all, its not worth it

  • @Patricia_Stewart337
    @Patricia_Stewart337 День тому

    Sex is good for healthy women. Women are understandably repelled by rude, abusive people.

  • @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl
    @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl День тому

    So it's all the women's fault? The right question to ask is WHY doesn't she want to have sex with YOU!!!

  • @annchurchill2638
    @annchurchill2638 День тому

    It can also , for women, depend on the man's emotional state .If he is totally self-absorbed, and cannot relate emotionally, cannot have an intimate conversation concerning their feelings, they are not sexually attractive to a woman.

  • @scottbriggs4960
    @scottbriggs4960 День тому

    A married man should not have to masturbate.

    • @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl
      @Sadbuttrue-ThatSwedishGirl День тому

      If you can't turn on your wife its your problem not hers. Just by your comment I understand why she prefers you to masturbate instead of getting touched by you. Grow TF up! She ain't your mummy!

  • @jonblackers4339
    @jonblackers4339 День тому

    ua-cam.com/video/OM_ggC3SjME/v-deo.html

  • @lauracoussens6207
    @lauracoussens6207 День тому

    Humans are contrary creatures. Why don't all of us make love with our spouses to grow even more and more in love with them?

  • @user-yl2cq5bw8i
    @user-yl2cq5bw8i День тому

    Men are sooo weird. Either way, seems to me if men want it they should initiate. If they get tired of initiating they're doing it wrong

  • @laineynae7943
    @laineynae7943 День тому

    Kristen, you’re a blessing!

  • @diannegooding8733
    @diannegooding8733 День тому

    Breast Cancer is known to be more prevalent in the left breast of a woman because most men are right handed! Discuss.

  • @americasgotseriousproblems2632

    Must be a lot of unhealthy relationships out there 😢 because in a healthy relationship there would not be all this game-playing. Sex is a normal part of a loving relationship.

  • @ajknaup3530
    @ajknaup3530 День тому

    My favorite is the numerous authors & opinionators -- all women, I think -- who write that women want sex just as much as men do.

    • @SLefd
      @SLefd День тому

      I know! It's totally bonkers. And a deep tragedy, how little women understand about these things. I'm in 50's, woman myself. It's not rocket science if you're interested in finding things out. But so many women are terribly self centered hence clueless in this area.

  • @peterbrazier1886
    @peterbrazier1886 День тому

    WELL SAID

  • @frankdevans1
    @frankdevans1 2 дні тому

    It’s difficult to understand what to do as a single guy that this rings far too true too. But then again as a guy who was tempered in not being attractive enough and never being good enough for a relationship. I got incredibly good at being single when I had to. I hope you guys developed that skill.

  • @hwd7
    @hwd7 2 дні тому

    As a bachelor, at least Im getting as much sex as married men, but without the nagging.

  • @Lbhacksaw
    @Lbhacksaw 2 дні тому

    lol…… this lady is in left field. When a woman does not want to have sex with her husband there are reasons why. Not rocket science.As well in reality sex is a drop in the bucket when it comes to a full life.

  • @bastiat6865
    @bastiat6865 2 дні тому

    Groping is just unskilled touching which has a sexual intent attached. If non-sexual touch (i.e. affection) is not common and touch is only engaged when the male desires sex, it creates a boundary because the woman feels like some repository rather than a sentient being who is being engaged as a matter of connection or being enticed according to what actually seduces her.

  • @bubbatheking9225
    @bubbatheking9225 2 дні тому

    Woman smiles as she walks down the aisle. Knowing that night will be the last BJ she'll ever perform.

  • @peterbrazier1886
    @peterbrazier1886 2 дні тому

    it's very simple if have sex I get 3 days relief, if I masturbate I get 3 HOURS relief

  • @bubbercakes528
    @bubbercakes528 2 дні тому

    As a man who has been alone for 15 years, it is not so much sex that I miss, it is the knowledge that someone loves me. I could get sex, but what good is it if there is no feeling that comes with it? Loneliness is a terrible thing.

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 2 дні тому

    When men figure out how to make it enjoyable for a woman, the women might actually take interest in it. No accountability.

  • @onecompass7290
    @onecompass7290 2 дні тому

    Men are generally completely incompetent when it comes to sex with women. LEARN how to please her and she will be all over you. I'll bet that all of the men watching this have zero knowledge about the female clitoris, how to stimulate their partner to orgasm. Suggestion: for one full year self stimulate and stop 1/3 of the way to orgasm. Only then will you understand. Your wife is insanely sexually frustrated EVERY TIME.

  • @slimshany4602
    @slimshany4602 2 дні тому

    My guess is women have had to feel unsafe for about ehm.. 500 years? (More?) I am no historian btw. But there is ofcourse a reason behind Feminism, womens rights and needs. About 80 percent have experienced one way or another sexual violence, or unwanted pregnancy. The mindset of a woman must be naturally different and careful. I hope more men nowadays will speak with their partner to bridge that gap, which is so important that both feel loved and desired. ✌🏽💛

  • @saelaird
    @saelaird 2 дні тому

    It's interesting to hear the audience laughing along at sexless men.

  • @ishabellanamthrak1015
    @ishabellanamthrak1015 2 дні тому

    Stop gawking and flirting with other women guys....that's a major turn off to us women.

  • @gregben
    @gregben 2 дні тому

    Most of these problems are cultural in nature. In cultures where sex is seen as natural and normal for both sexes to seek and enjoy without judgement, women don't convince themselves that they're not interested. They see sex as an integral part of bonding and building a closer and stronger relationship with their partner.

  • @davidr9589
    @davidr9589 2 дні тому

    Bill served the American people, and Hillary wasn't servicing Bill. That's why she lost the election years and years later.

  • @mrsherwood2599
    @mrsherwood2599 3 дні тому

    Women like sex just fine. They just like power more.

  • @DonTruman
    @DonTruman 3 дні тому

    Excellent talk. That's a keeper.

  • @AntjeRoestenburg
    @AntjeRoestenburg 3 дні тому

    If a man wants to satisfy his needs, he can do so perfectly fine by himself, without having to use another person for it 🤔

  • @user-yf1mv5ji3e
    @user-yf1mv5ji3e 3 дні тому

    Women want it way more than men. This is based on old stereotypes.

  • @user-vq8eh4qz8l
    @user-vq8eh4qz8l 3 дні тому

    Actually,I enjoy listened to Alan's talk very much. He is an amazing teacher. I also respect Tenzin Palmo, but I learned much more from Alan in past years.

  • @abrum8869
    @abrum8869 3 дні тому

    The idea that a man and a woman are supposed to get married and spend their lives together is cruel. Women do not want anything men have to offer. Women will marry you and totally change who they are.

  • @desking8065
    @desking8065 4 дні тому

    Women All very well but she is not mentioning the root cause. SEXLESS WOMEN. Before marriage men get more sex. Sex is used as a trap to get a husband. Sex is a marital duty that goes by the way side very quickly. Sex is the stalwart of marriage. With out sex marriage falls apart. Men are better off just shacking up for short periods only like six months at a time, Marriage is a defunked institution, that should never happen again. The rise of ME TO is a big creator of the no marriage syndrome. Asian women are by far the best choice of women They are very permissive and caring, Women have bought all of this dilemma on themselves being sexless shortly after marriage. Do not ever get married to Western women. You will regret it the rest of your life Women do not care about the needs of men it's all about them. Women do not have the same sexual needs as men. When a woman recites her wedding vowels she is lying right to your face. The Victorian govt; appointing a minister for mens’ behaviour is absolutely stupid the problem is staring straight at them. And it takes a woman to come up with that idea. Women have an obligation to men after marriage which is not being fulfilled. It’s withheld as a bargaining chip or sadistic reasons. Women would rather give sex away for free than do their duty towards their husband. And they wonder why men get frustrated against women. The whole dynamics of marriage is geared towards the woman. If you break up she gets the lions share by law. How else do you want to create friction. The only equal way of a break up is murder in the eyes of the law. Women have created their own demise by the mismanagement of mens’ needs. [Infidelity, women are experts] Hwo has changed women or men. ? What were women put on earth for ? The only way is rule out marriage, the plot has been lost to self entitlement.

  • @poppy747
    @poppy747 4 дні тому

    I can't relate. I need and love sex, my partner would rather watch porn even though he says he's having the best sex with me. I'm attractive with a good body but it's not enough. It's awful. Are there really men out there that can be satisfied by a real women and who never watch porn?

    • @davidr9589
      @davidr9589 2 дні тому

      Yes. Real men like reality

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 5 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @jynclr
    @jynclr 6 днів тому

    If Jordan Peterson finds what this woman has to say interesting, I want nothing to do with her.

  • @Irina-vm9ix
    @Irina-vm9ix 6 днів тому

    I liked the very first label with superman style🥲

  • @kat-601
    @kat-601 7 днів тому

    Woman control the relationship because they "can" control the sex.

  • @bumpercoach
    @bumpercoach 8 днів тому

    its the real divorce rate since its as much vow-breaking by "wives" as porn use or worse by husbands... when she most days refuses sex shes made herself an EX

  • @charlesdarwin4749
    @charlesdarwin4749 8 днів тому

    Half a moment. She's saying 'women' and 'the world is full of...etc.' meaning 'all women, everywhere', but she's British (Australian), quoting American (another former colony's) research. Bit of cultural myopia here, no? If memory serves, Englishmen are said to be desexed by their British upbringing, terribly shy around women- while America was founded by British people so sexually uptight, intolerant and bossy that they had to leave England (the grim, humorless, workaholic Puritans, those sexless religious nuts and all-around horrible bosses that they were). Jokes, and stereotypes, do tend to have at least some basis in historical reality, however fairly or unfairly interpreted. What if "people" being all screwed-up about sex is largely a cultural hangover plaguing ex-colonies of the former British Empire? Has any comedian ever gotten cheers and laughter by telling jokes about what lousy lovers the French are? Or the Italians? Or any of the Mediterranean peoples whom the British have (or did) regard as 'sex-crazed, lazy and indolent' in the not-so-distant past?

  • @Chris-hp2gg
    @Chris-hp2gg 9 днів тому

    Testosterone.😂

  • @UnrealTransformer
    @UnrealTransformer 9 днів тому

    And if the women want sex but the man say no, all hell brake loose.

    • @razedcountry4836
      @razedcountry4836 8 днів тому

      Yep, I get extremely crabby. Love feeling the hubby’s body in me so if I have not had it then I feel disconnected. The hubby is more cerebral but well studied on how to please me.

  • @tinagrizzle756
    @tinagrizzle756 10 днів тому

    I wanted to hear T Palmo 😢